Self Care: Adult Version

January 21, 2024

In the hustle and bustle of adult life, it's easy to overlook our own well-being. Juggling work, family, and personal responsibilities can leave us feeling drained and disconnected from our emotions. When talking about emotions and mental health, I don't want to overlook us, as adults, let's explore the importance of self-care for adults and delve into the practice of naming feelings as a crucial aspect of nurturing your mental and emotional health.

It's important to understand the importance of self-care and to not get hung up on it as a trendy buzzword; it's a fundamental aspect of maintaining a healthy and balanced life. It involves consciously taking steps to prioritize your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Whether it's carving out time for relaxation, engaging in activities you love, or setting boundaries to protect your energy, self-care is about making choices that support your overall health. I'll share some more tips and tricks on ways we, as adults, can practice self-care.

The power of naming feelings as an adult is  often overlooked element of self-care is the practice of naming feelings. Identifying and acknowledging our emotions is a key step in understanding ourselves better and promoting emotional intelligence. When we put names to our feelings, we gain clarity, allowing us to address and navigate them more effectively.

Building emotional awareness starts when we develop emotional awareness. Take moments throughout the day to check in with yourself. What are you feeling? Are you stressed, anxious, or perhaps content? By regularly assessing your emotional state, you create space for self-reflection and growth. We give so much of our time to social media, work, family, friends, etc, but taking just a few minutes out of your day to say I feel ___________ can help start to build in emotional awareness.

Just like we ask our children to grow their vocabulary of emotions, it's just as important as adults to build our own emotional vocabulary. Far to often we answer the question "How are you doing?" With broad terms like "good" or "bad" to describe our feelings. However, a rich emotional vocabulary allows for more precise expression. Are you feeling joyful, grateful, frustrated, or overwhelmed? The more specific you can be, the better equipped you are to address your needs.